I had my own notion of grief

I thought is was the sad time

that followed the death of someone you love,

and you had to push through it

to get to the other side

but i am learning there is NO other FUCKING side

there is no Fucking pushing through

but rather

there is absorption

adjustment

acceptance

and grief is not something you FUCKING complete

but rather you endure

Grief is not a task to finish

and move on

but an element of yourself

al alteration of your being

a new way of seeing

a new definition of self

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